I finally got a set of wheels for the car!  I went with gunmetal VMR V710.  Yes, they are used, but I had two of them redone so two are perfect and the other two are in very good condition.  The 19s with super low profile tires definitely ride a bit more harsh, but nothing too bad.  I love them and the gunmetal really transforms the car with the carbon fiber bits which is what I was going for.  Black can look weird at certain angles so I went with something that looks aftermarket, yet OEM at the same time.

Specs:

8.5 x 19 ET 33

9.5 x 19 ET 35

I went with Hankook V12 tires and ditched the horrible run-flats!   Hankook is good especially for the price.  I wasn’t ready to commit to Pilot SS yet!